I’ve been incredibly neglectful of my blog lately, and quite a bit has happened. If you’ve followed me on twitter, you probably know the majority of my past few months. If you haven’t followed me on Twitter, here’s the gist:
- A kiitten fell into my lap! No, really, it did. A friend of mine had a litter of kittens, and needed a home, so Mike, the stray roommate we took in, said he’d take one. When I moved, he came with, because Mike wasn’t around the apartment with Utt and Futt all that much to care for him. Originally, his name was Gabriel (not my choice, and he isn’t that much of an angel), but I’ve since changed his name to Bolt. He tries to bolt out doors, and is VERY quick. Isn’t he precious? He LOVES this laundry basket!
- June 27th – Went to see Legally Blonde, the musical, with my friend, Jennifer, who had 2 tickets, and her hubby isn’t so much of a fan of musicals, she thought to invite me. It was hilarious, I really enjoyed it! I had no idea musicals could be so good, or funny even.
- June 28th – Jeremy and I got into an argument, over the ratio of dirty dishes to clean dishes in the kitchen…the kitchen was ALWAYS a mess, and hardly had any clean dishes, and were lucky if we could even use the faucet, they’d be piled so high. If they were mine, they’d been cleaned, but I didn’t cook in that kitchen much because it was always in a disarray. Basically, I asked if the kitchen was ever going to be clean, and he said he was “fixin’ to do it”….he’s ALWAYS “fixin'” to do something, but never gets done. He then told me he wanted me out by the end of the month, and I calmly said “no” which ticked him off, and so he called the cops telling them I was trespassing! At this point, I’d already lived there over 2 months, and it’s not like I just snuck in the house and have lived there undetected. I went in my room, waiting for the county sherrif to show up, and prove that I’d established residency. He then comes in my room, yelling at me, telling me that if I’d asked nicely, maybe he’d do the dishes. I asked him if he, at the age of 23, really needed to be told to clean up after himself. He then proceded to grab my duffel bag of dirty clothes, and throw them out the front door. I, of course, went running after it. As I was picking up my clothes, I made the comment to Chris, Jeremy’s boyfriend about how he’s got a real winner, which set Jeremy off, and he then began shoving me out the door. My buddy, James, was outside the door as well, and he and Chris told him to stop, as I’m yelling. Jeremy stopped, then ran back to my room, and smashed my floor lamp in his rage. I, then, feeling unsafe, called the cops, myself. Cops came, and asked me if I wanted them to arrest him. I felt, ONLY because he didn’t actually hit me, that it wasn’t necessary, but the officers advised I leave for the night, which I did. Jeremy, being the liar he is, told the cops my lamp was broken from the door swinging open, which was never the case. Jeremy tried changing the locks previously, and I asked the officers tell him not to change them on me, and they warned him. The officers stayed until I left, which I was grateful for. I stayed the night at my good friend, Jennifer’s house, and was grateful she took me in.
- June 29th – As if I hadn’t already had a rough weekend, it only got worst when i was pulled over by a cop, for expired tags…I passed him only because he was on his cell phone, and figured a man can’t multi-task, and pay attention to my tags at the same time! He’s an exception, I suppose. He got me, and decided to mark me down for 2 infractions, instead of just expired tags, which cost me an additional $12.
- June 30th – found me a new place to move, thought it would be great, living with a couple of girls, back in Bellevue, and pretty cheap. Put down first months rent that day, needing to get away from the messy living situation I was in. I was grateful for her taking me in. The downside was it was only 3 months, because the one girl was getting married, and her and her husband were going to live there. I didn’t care, just needed to feel safe.
- July 2nd – MOVING DAY! Was SO glad to be done with the drama. Didn’t unpack half of my stuff, knowing it was only a short term lease. The first weekend there, I thought I was in heaven…the sink was void of any dirty dishes, AND I could hear the vacuum being used! NEVER would’ve happened at the old place! Continue reading
Ben was a hugger, like a big teddy bear, and always happy to see everyone! I just can’t believe that an (apparently) unstable man could just walk into a bar and shoot someone. He apparently was obsessed with Nikki (his wife, the woman in the picture), and even posted this on his myspace blog a day before the murder:
Schmidt Happens 
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